I’m going to make this very short, because I don’t feel like discussing too much the insecurities of the modern male. I think that’s what I will do that more in November. That will be a fun month for me.
Often times when you are a woman, you hear people talk about being in a relationship, you should make a man feel like he is a real man. Or when you are hanging out with a male and he says that he does or does not do certain things because they make/don’t make him feel manly.
Here’s the thing that I do not understand when guys are trying to be manly or expecting a girl to make them feel manly: Do you have a penis?
Honestly, if you have a penis, you really probably shouldn’t be worrying about whether people perceive you as a male. You have the proof with you at all times and even though you can’t exactly whip out that proof at any given moment, it’s still there.
Unless, of course, you are one of the rare straight men who like to dress up like a woman frequently for kicks. Then I do believe it is important to worry about if you are seen in a masculine light.